Galvatron
Mar 9th, 2005, 02:22 PM
Now, I cannot personally tell if masturbation and sex feels the same for women, but for men, both acts lead to the same feeling.
Orgasm
You can have one when you Masturbate, and also from having sex with a woman ( or another man...if you're into that sort of thing).
So one must ponder this, is Sex overrated if we can reach the same feeling through masturbation.
The simple answer would be yes, it is overrated, but only if we take these factors into consideration. However, there are other factors to be taken into account
* While orgasms between masturbation and sex can feel the same, jerking off and actually having sex have a radically different sensation
* If you're with a new partner, Sex can be awkward, because you want to be good in bed, and it can be stressful, sometimes even to a point to making the sex unpleasurable, and that really defeats the purpose.
* USUSALLY, not always, but most of the time, with sex comes a relationship ( this can be a good or bad thing, depending on what you want)
* Touching, Foreplay, etc- This is what truly seperates masturbation from sex. Being intimate with your partner. Touching, caressing, fondling, and so on.
* The Hunt- The most frustrating part of sex, and indeed, one of the most frustrating parts in life itself, is finding a proper mate. Now, you usually never reach your targeted goal on the first night of hunting. If you're lucky you might FIND your target on the first night, but then you have to work on her. You have to get her to like you enough to date you, by talking to her, giving advice, and other things , depending on what she asks from you. If, by some miracle, she is dating you, she'll either let you sleep with her, or you have to work towards it. And working towards it is basically the same as when you were just friends, except you get to neck every now and then
Taking all of these into consideration, is Sex over-rated, or is the effort to achieve it make it all the more better?
Orgasm
You can have one when you Masturbate, and also from having sex with a woman ( or another man...if you're into that sort of thing).
So one must ponder this, is Sex overrated if we can reach the same feeling through masturbation.
The simple answer would be yes, it is overrated, but only if we take these factors into consideration. However, there are other factors to be taken into account
* While orgasms between masturbation and sex can feel the same, jerking off and actually having sex have a radically different sensation
* If you're with a new partner, Sex can be awkward, because you want to be good in bed, and it can be stressful, sometimes even to a point to making the sex unpleasurable, and that really defeats the purpose.
* USUSALLY, not always, but most of the time, with sex comes a relationship ( this can be a good or bad thing, depending on what you want)
* Touching, Foreplay, etc- This is what truly seperates masturbation from sex. Being intimate with your partner. Touching, caressing, fondling, and so on.
* The Hunt- The most frustrating part of sex, and indeed, one of the most frustrating parts in life itself, is finding a proper mate. Now, you usually never reach your targeted goal on the first night of hunting. If you're lucky you might FIND your target on the first night, but then you have to work on her. You have to get her to like you enough to date you, by talking to her, giving advice, and other things , depending on what she asks from you. If, by some miracle, she is dating you, she'll either let you sleep with her, or you have to work towards it. And working towards it is basically the same as when you were just friends, except you get to neck every now and then
Taking all of these into consideration, is Sex over-rated, or is the effort to achieve it make it all the more better?