i think i'm a slut. [Archive]

Schimid

Mar 14th, 2005, 10:22 AM

I kind of had a cast party at my house for this thing the school did this weekend--a bunch of people went, some girls spent the night. I picked up one that I've known for a little. It's a well-known fact that she's had a crush on me for over a year now, but she's been on-and-off with other guys. All of us stay up watching Nick Arcade and the Blue Collar Comedy Tour (Which, I discovered, isn't so bad). We "do stuff" and she asks me out, I say no, and take a shower the next morning at 8 A.M.

Next day, we do this gay movie shooting thing at my school for Ghostwatchers 2, a straight-to-DVD movie that they needed high school kids for. I have a "sleeping" party and everyone goes to my house. We order pizza, play shirtless poker and watch "Surviving The Game". After poker we decided that we should all stay shirtless. It was cold, so me and a second girl curled up in a blanket on the couch. During the movie, me and this other girl kind of "did stuff". I'm pretty sure that the first girl saw, but she didn't say anything to me about it.

does that make me a slut :=

DeadKennedys

Mar 14th, 2005, 10:35 AM

No, but saying "did stuff" makes you sound twelve.

If this girl has had such a big crush on you, I think you could have afforded to be a little more respectful in front of her, but, that's one of the last things you think about in that kind of situation. She'll live.

Schimid

Mar 14th, 2005, 10:45 AM

I say "did stuff" because I don't want to get specific and I suck at words.

Me and the first girl have talked, though, and she knows that I don't want anything in the way of a relationship. At all. I did think about her as it was going on, but I also thought about how we've talked before about it. Also, she's done a lot of jumping around between guys, but she tells me that through all of them she's been more attracted to me.

Matt Harty

Mar 14th, 2005, 10:53 AM

If you know she jumps around, have fun "doing stuff" but don't get too attached.

Anonymous

Mar 14th, 2005, 12:43 PM

We'll try to have a feature on Ghost Watchers II in your honor.

Mar 14th, 2005, 03:06 PM

Hey, don't mind if I paste this into the Trivia section on IMDb.com.

adept_ninja

Mar 14th, 2005, 03:24 PM

guys cant be sluts only women :/

felix_tibs

Mar 14th, 2005, 07:55 PM

your pretty cool for an i-dork!

Schimid

Mar 14th, 2005, 09:30 PM

me and a third girl kissed in my truck today.

i guess it's official.

adept_ninja

Mar 14th, 2005, 09:34 PM

no your just a pimp Schimid

DeadKennedys

Mar 14th, 2005, 10:36 PM

I've always been skeptical about girls who say "I know I've been around the block but I liked you the most the whole time." If you don't want anything from her in that respect, then it's not your job to worry about how she'll feel. I mean, it is in a way, but that's something you have to decide for yourself, because we're different people. People are emotional, and with emotion comes irrationality. People can't understand when you say they're a great friend but you don't want to date them. You can say it makes sense to you now, but when you're faced with it it's a whole nother world. So, I think the best thing you can do for her is to not have your relationships all in front of her, until you think she's at the point where she won't rip your head off for saying "I don't like you, and I'm going to move on regardless of how much you like me."

And I realized afterward that you're probably not twelve and were just not trying to sound like a braggart. So, I apologize.

Schimid

Mar 14th, 2005, 10:47 PM

Hahah, did I come across like that? Because you didn't come across as insulting either. We both have work to do.

I'm not being a braggart or anything, I'm just trying to get some feedback, maybe from people who might have had the same experience. This kinda happened all of a sudden, which is extremely weird. Before, I was lucky if I kissed anyone every two months--now it has literally happened three days in a row with three different girls, all of whom I really don't talk to outside of acquaintance.

I think I'm going to lose friends over this, friends of the people that I could potentially be hurting. I guess this thread was asking if anyone has had anything like this happen and what the outcome was.

liquidstatik

Mar 14th, 2005, 11:08 PM

hey schimid stop being a rockstar

Anonymous

Mar 15th, 2005, 01:05 AM

i recommend you learn a music sequencing program and then travel around the country so you can do this stuff all the time and never risk running into the same people.

ziggytrix

Mar 15th, 2005, 11:38 AM

A kiss is just a kiss. Unless one of them has herpes.

Schimid

Mar 15th, 2005, 07:42 PM

Okay, well, the backlash hit. I made two of the girls cry and all three of them told pretty much everyone they know, while I was trying to keep it on the down-low because I didn't want them to be confronted about it. Didn't wanna cause more trouble.

I never lied, just didn't say anything about it--but now I've got people hating and loathing me because of it. I think I deserve it.

Glad to see this is all over, I guess.

Anonymous

Mar 15th, 2005, 07:45 PM

http://images-eu.amazon.com/images/P/B0002K10VQ.02.LZZZZZZZ.jpg

MLE

Mar 15th, 2005, 07:45 PM

so this is the life of a rockstar :o

EDIT:
http://www.popnko.com/Emily/rockstar-can.jpg

adept_ninja

Mar 15th, 2005, 08:45 PM

Its good that its over...I dont think you exactly deserved people hating you but what can you do?

Enquvist

Mar 15th, 2005, 11:18 PM

Totally totally agree!

liquidstatik

Mar 16th, 2005, 12:39 PM

so this is the life of a rockstar :o

EDIT:
http://www.popnko.com/Emily/rockstar-can.jpg

:lol

Dole

Mar 17th, 2005, 08:22 AM

The motto is: DON'T DO STUFF

Matt Harty

Mar 17th, 2005, 08:50 PM

I'd relate to Schimid but i'd be lying. :rolleyes

Dixie

Mar 18th, 2005, 04:29 PM

He deserved it. Slut. That's the problem with being what girls would consider an "asshole". Better luck next time champ.

Lotida

Mar 18th, 2005, 10:08 PM

I guess this thread was asking if anyone has had anything like this happen and what the outcome was.

RIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

You might as well be screaming "LOOK AT ME I KISSED A GIRL"!!!

adept_ninja

Mar 21st, 2005, 01:12 AM

shut up. I'll beat you up you biker dyke-avatar-stealer

Supafly345

Mar 22nd, 2005, 04:36 PM

You aren't a slut, you are a guy taking advantage of actual sluts. It is kind of hard for "just in it(haha) for the sex" to mean anything when half of your gender never looks for an emotional attachment in the first place.

When you get to the point that an automatic fly opening sensor sounds like a practical investment, then you might qualify as a slut.

lordofd3struction

Mar 22nd, 2005, 10:02 PM

guys cant be sluts only women :/ no guys are man whores

DeadKennedys

Mar 22nd, 2005, 10:27 PM

A few years back, I saw scatched into a bench at school "Whores cry and whores die. I cry for whores"

Man, I wonder what the hell that meant :lol

Slinky Ferret

Mar 25th, 2005, 05:36 AM

Hey Schmid.

Being a slut is doing what I've done:

Slept with one lad and then the very same night slept with his best friend in the next room. I was very drunk that night but it was bad behaviour and I'm not that sort of girl.

There are some girls in this town that will sleep with anyone. That is a slut. Girls who go clubbing not wearing much, pull some bloke, sleep with him. Next day go out again, find someone else...

If you really like a girl then don't mess her around. Sex becomes very meaningless after a while if you're sleeping with people you don't really care about.

jabs73717

Mar 26th, 2005, 05:40 PM

Does it make me gay that i don't want to have sex with my girlfriend right now??? I'd rather be on this forum. Blah.

haha. This is his girlfriend.hahahahahahhahahahahaah

Yes, YOU ARE A SLUT. But you're a guy and you can get away with it most of the time. It'll pass though. LATER

Chojin

Mar 26th, 2005, 08:19 PM

hilarious!

MetalMilitia

Mar 26th, 2005, 09:24 PM

adept_ninja

Mar 26th, 2005, 11:12 PM

GAY DECIVER!

DemonAngel55@hotmail

Mar 28th, 2005, 12:08 PM

eh,i don't have balls but i am the reciever. So i'm half gay? hahahahaha. Yeaaaaah.

Matt Harty

Mar 28th, 2005, 12:12 PM

nice username

Chojin

Mar 28th, 2005, 01:49 PM

Yeaaaaah.

MetalMilitia

Mar 28th, 2005, 01:54 PM

eh,i don't have balls but i am the reciever. So i'm half gay? hahahahaha. Yeaaaaah.

No i think you have to be the reviever and have your balls touch or it does not count.
Hope this helps.

Schimid

Mar 28th, 2005, 02:16 PM

Update.

Me and the third girl have been pushing things forward, a little. We went out and saw The Ring 2 last Friday. We both don't want a relationship, but it's clear that we go out occasionally.

Happy ending ^_^

ziggytrix

Mar 28th, 2005, 04:13 PM

yay, happy ending! :dance

MetalMilitia

Mar 28th, 2005, 05:45 PM

kellychaos

Mar 28th, 2005, 06:59 PM

Cunts! All of you!! >:

mischief

Mar 29th, 2005, 06:13 PM

i don't think you have any reason to feel bad. don't let anyone make you feel like shit just because you don't want to *BE* with them.

why are people always in such a rush to cling to each other?

Dole

Mar 30th, 2005, 05:19 AM

to give some small fleeting illusion of meaning in our lives before WE ALL TUMBLE, SCREAMING, INTO THE VOID.

Pyorrhea

Mar 31st, 2005, 06:48 PM

Being a slut is sleeping with some guy from your math class after he sends you a myspace message, and then sucking his friend off...

Being a slut is still fucking around with some guy you dumped after he cheated on you...

King Hadas

Mar 31st, 2005, 07:07 PM

We went out and saw The Ring 2 last Friday.
That doesn't sound like a happy ending at all.

mischief

Mar 31st, 2005, 07:13 PM

dole, thank you for clearing that up for me. that's terrible. i think we all know what has to happen now.

executioneer

Mar 31st, 2005, 08:02 PM

pictures of kitties

Emu

Mar 31st, 2005, 09:10 PM

Hey Schmid.

Being a slut is doing what I've done:

was i the only one reminded of that one south park episode with paris hilton :(