Getting raped by a chick

[Jebus]

So i threw a little party and i have a girlfriend. She ended up getting really trashed and i had to take her home early. After she left this girl that i worked with took off her shirt, no bra on, and started getting on top of me. Now i rejected her and pushed her off me several times yet i cannot tell my girlfriend this. I want to but i think she would find a way to turn it around and make me the bad guy. I just want some advice from the girls on here whether i should tell her not.

[FS]

Don't wait too long with telling it or she'll suspect more happened than you're telling her. And if you happened not to push this girl away immediately - LIE. Say you violently tossed her to the other end of the room and were shocked and appalled, and outraged.

[AChimp]

If she doesn't believe you when you tell her that you pushed the chick away repeatedly, then it is obvious that she didn't have much trust to begin with. :(

[soundtest]

I never said anything to my gf when something similar happened to me, and we spent 4 wonderful years with each other after the fact. But I am a jerk. I felt kinda guilty for not telling her, but not really because it meant nothing, nothing happened, and telling her would do more harm than good. If I could go back I would make the same mistake.

[executioneer]

For some reason when I read the title of this thread I thought it said "Getting raped by a DUCK" :lol

-willie

[Protoclown]

I would definitely tell her. It would show that you are honest, if nothing else. And if she can't appreciate that immediately, she will eventually, after she has time to digest the information.

[AChimp]

Eeeehhh... a little too optimistic, Proto. :(

Digestion can take a looooong time with some people. :(

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[Jebus]

hmmm, I just told her that the girl had hit on me and I told her no. She kept asking me what I meant by hitting on me but I just kinda brushed her off and said I dont know. Hopefully that's the end of it.

[kahljorn]

:-\
:-/

[pjalne]

If you said 'dunno', that's NOT the end of it. You obviously know, and she probably thinks you're hiding something terrible. From what I understand from your story you never actually had intercourse with this girl, and if this assumption is correct you shouldn't really have anything to hide.

[Helm]

Tell her. If she doesn't understand and starts yelling about you being a pig and taking advantage of that poor girl, just beat her up until she just sits in a corner and sobs. That'll put her in her place.

[kellychaos]

If you said 'dunno', that's NOT the end of it. .

My guess is that she'll try an end run around you by asking other people at the party that may or may not know what happened. So ... which is worse; full disclosure or misinformation from half-witnesses?

[Anonymous]

Are you really so much of a chickenshit that you'd want to stay with a girl that'd flip out on you for that?

[Ninjavenom]

Tell her. If she doesn't understand and starts yelling about you being a pig and taking advantage of that poor girl, just beat her up until she just sits in a corner and sobs. That'll put her in her place.


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