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Apr 1st, 2009 03:56 PM
Kitsa I was trying to express my solidarity
Apr 1st, 2009 02:51 PM
Babs I think Kitsa and I need our own day time show. Kind of like the days of our lives sort of thing.
Mar 31st, 2009 05:13 PM
Kitsa Well, I'd like to think my help was more SPECIFIC than that, kahl.
Mar 31st, 2009 03:02 PM
kahljorn well it was kinda mentioned when we called her a lazy cuntbag leech

but good advice all the same..

YOU SHOULD QUIT YOUR JOB BABALITY OR SAY YOURE GETTING A PAY CUT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS :O
Mar 30th, 2009 09:19 AM
Kitsa Not that this has, uh, happened to anyone I know or anything....ahem....

Something that hasn't yet been mentioned (at least not what I saw skimming 4 pgs of posts) is this:

If you have been speaking a great deal about your medical school plans, and you're in a relationship with a certain type of person, that person has a way of....speculating. If you know what I mean. A way of looking into the future and seeing a hardworking doctor, equipped with significant other who reaps status, security and cash for no particular reason other than that they're affiliated with you.

I was in an eerily similar position at about your same time in life. I was taking medical school classes pre-MCAT by special permission. I was on the Dean's list almost every semester and doing great. And the person I was with was...well, more or less there. Sorta.

I was stupidly flattered to have anyone at all, due to my whole self-loathing thing, and willingly overlooked all sorts of glaring problems with the relationship. Not the least of these was his propensity to talk about his future as a "house husband" and "working from home". I disregarded these warning signs and assumed he was going to educate himself, get his degree and certifications, and that never happened.

Matter of fact, as the years went by he lost job after job, was pretty much the exact opposite of reliable, and clearly did not give a rat's ass about my various medical emergencies. My family was far more gracious than they should have been.

Long story short, when my health deteriorated to the point that I had to leave medical school to work and keep my insurance, and later when I had to leave work altogether, he was not there for me. As a matter of fact, when I could no longer make sure the bills were all paid, he didn't "love" me anymore and routinely threatened to leave. I was dumb and naive and tried to salvage the relationship, but it wasn't happening. When I could no longer provide money, he took it. That's a very long story and since it wound up in court I probably shouldn't go into it here.

Here's the condensed version: he was "there" when he thought I was going to be a doctor with a secure future and lots of cash. When that didn't work out, he wasn't "there" for me anymore and my life became a prolonged living hell. He was never there for ME at all, just himself, trying to stick it out and watch an investment grow.

The uninitiated have no idea of the massive student loans and life-drain that medical school entails. They don't know how deep in debt most newly-minted physicians start out. They have a dim, underpants-gnome understanding of the situation: Step 1, attach yourself to doctor-to-be. Step 2..............Step 3, biiiig profit.

The last thing in the world you need, going into surgery to get a tumor removed and worrying about all those implications, is going in worrying that the person in the waiting room is not worried about you but where their future security will come from. I've been there and trust me, you don't want that. You really don't want that.

Just some things to think about.
Mar 30th, 2009 12:11 AM
Babs
Mar 26th, 2009 07:48 PM
kahljorn YOU CAN SAY THAT BUT CAN YOU WRITE A STORY WITH A MORAL AT THE END THAT SAYS SO?

I DIDNT THINK SO.

AND DONT YOU EVEN BEGIN TO AMPHIBOLIZE
Mar 26th, 2009 03:10 PM
Babs STILL WRONG!
Mar 25th, 2009 09:14 PM
kahljorn that's not what stories with morals say tadao
Mar 25th, 2009 08:07 PM
Tadao WRONG!
Mar 25th, 2009 07:31 PM
Big McLargehuge The loneliest life you can live is hoppin' from slut to slut.
Mar 25th, 2009 06:17 PM
Babs she's not the only one....
Mar 24th, 2009 05:32 PM
Big McLargehuge Having a bitch in yer bed doesn't mean you aren't alone
Mar 22nd, 2009 02:54 AM
Babs sadly i'm not
Mar 21st, 2009 09:32 AM
Big McLargehuge you are going to be alone forever
Mar 19th, 2009 07:58 PM
Babs I hid that bitch's body
Mar 17th, 2009 07:31 PM
AChimp I'm confused by this thread now. Did you dump the lazy chick or what?
Mar 15th, 2009 04:36 PM
Tadao Drugs, do em.
Mar 15th, 2009 04:33 PM
Babs Tough and awkward positions. Yeah, I really just want to be free right now too. Spring is coming and I want to be renewed again and shit, plus I need a lot of stress off me since class is starting up again soon.
Mar 15th, 2009 04:23 PM
Tadao That's silly. She needs someone to hold her and love her. That is totally respectful. As long as your not going to just get laid and leave or use her for money and drugs, I see no problem there. Don't let other peoples who need rules to keep them from abusing people tell you what you should or should not do.

Homo.
Mar 15th, 2009 04:19 PM
Babs It's terrible. I want to leave somewhat but like god damn, somethings are so beautiful. ART FAG!!!!

I just wish she would stop acting like my mother.

I've been talking to this one woman who is a little bit older than me but she is amazing. Only thing her boyfriend just recently passed away and I must have respect.
Mar 15th, 2009 04:11 PM
Tadao I hate to bring this up again, who am I kidding I love it!

When a person is cheating on you, the will often try to see if you are cheating on them. Most of the time it is the accuser who is doing the cheating. AND YES IT HAS HAPPENED TO ME!
Mar 15th, 2009 03:47 PM
Dixie Dude.
RUN.
Mar 15th, 2009 02:56 PM
Babs hahaha now I just found my girlfriend has been getting onto my myspace and shit. DAMN BITCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCH
Mar 10th, 2009 12:35 AM
DevilWearsPrada This is where tadao makes an ejaculation joke.
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