Sounds just like my Jack Russell. He won't do anything unless you're holding a milkbone, it's gotten to the point where I have to rattle the lid on the cookie jar to get his attention.

My dog loves me more than food so he listens to me. Unless he's barking at someone. Then shit's going down.

I have to put my kitties up for adoption :(
i even cried today

WHY??? :O

well, i don't know exactly where i'm going to be living for any sort of long term and all my options do not allow pets and i can't stick my exhusband with them :( and neither me nor my exhusband are really ever home, i only come home one maybe two nights a week.

That makes me mad.

:C

it makes me wanna cry. i'm out of work right now so i can't afford to pay anyone to take care of them in the meantime :(

That sucks big hairy monkey balls. :( I feel for you D - hope things get better for you soon.

I hope it gets better. Evil recession ;__;

who said anything about a "recession"?
it's called "divorce", numbnuts.

i dont want to give you stupid advice that you may already be following but maybe you could find a private renter rather than like a regular apartment complex or something in which you're going through a rental service? Usually they don't mind so much if you have pets.
The only way to find these fabled renters though usually is to drive around communities you would like to live in and look for "for rent" signs :(

A mother in law house would be nice, but you can't party in those so you would have to be a good girl.

i've been living on a coworker's couch since june, i'm well aware of rental opportunities. i have 2 possible options at this moment, neither would allow cats. i'm out of work til mid-late spetember, no money for rent/deposits, not many people but those 2 options are very understanding about that kind of thing. i wouldn't give them up unless i absolutely had to and it looks like i have to.

I'm praying for you Dixie

you're an asshole <3

:lol

I once had friends who werent allowed cattes in their apt, but they covertly kept cattes anyway. They had them the whole 2 years they lived there, but this was a large apt complex where the manager doesnt have time to check up on everyone. Theres always ways ^^

you've got to be partially brain dead or something

As a appt manager and cat lover, my ex would ignore cats sunbathing in windows.

i wouldn't be having my own apartment, i'd be staying with more people. one house has a dog and people allergic to cats. the other i'd be in a sleeping bag in an apartment turned art studio.
not really any place for cats.

:(

damn have you tried getting cash aid or looking into any programs? maybe as a recently divorced woman you could get some kind of help :(

i'm not divorced yet

ok well there are programs that might be able to help but whatevs ill stop being mr. advice guy.