I worked all weekend, and spent all my after work time hanging out with an overbearing Canadian man who I bet thinks I consider him my best friend. My ex isn't talking to me at all after I suggested that we talk less in an effort to get her to talk to me. The girl I am interested in at work told me that her boyfriend is fantastic and definitely stronger than I am.

FUCK AND I CAN'T EDIT.

Doncha just hate it when you see someone you're interested in perfectly happy with someone else?

how does that work?

She lives in the UK. She got really mad at me for no good reason, which she did a lot, so I told her to calm down and don't take it out on me etc. She took that badly and stopped talking to me for a few days. I sent her an email saying that if we are just going to fight all the time maybe we shouldn't talk so much - I sort of expected her to realise that it was something serious that I wanted to talk about, rather than actualy stop talking... but she got even madder at me for suggesting such a horrible thing, and if that's what I want, then that's what I'll get, and she stopped answering calls, emails etc. My fault.

how strange. the exact same thing happened to me, but i was on the girlfriend end of it.
i'm going to guess that she reacted the same way i did for the same reason. she's not trying to punish you, she just thinks you're less interested in her now. send her another email, let her know exactly why you did it and just make it clear that you very much still adore her and you don't want any less of her. at least, that'd work on me:(

Going to a baby shower....do guys really go to these?

NO THEY ARE ONLY FOR BROADS

Guys, I feel good again about writing.

That, or I could be having a manic episode of creativity. I don't wanna get my hopes up.

I've heard of "coed" baby showers, but it seems like it would be uncomfortable and boring for guys especially.

IDIOT!!!! Don't put babies in the shower, instead use the sink or a plastic tub.

Only if you're married. You're not married, just a pussy.

man at babby shower seams silly,maybe its just my culturehowever!!

aaarg is that a spambot quote?

camacazio (2:47:20 PM): oh man i'm way unmotivated to do work today

YouWantToBeAdam (2:54:09 PM): maybe you are losing your lust for it

camacazio (2:54:48 PM): i think i worked myself too much during the last few months on that fpga, and now that i'm programming for two different final project assignments due roughly 2 week sform now, i'm burnt out

YouWantToBeAdam (2:56:07 PM):you have any heads around?

YouWantToBeAdam (2:56:43 PM):maybe you can get a hook up for some uppers, artificial motivation

camacazio (2:57:14 PM): taht sounds like recommending drugs to solve being lazy

YouWantToBeAdam (2:57:45 PM): your IM ears are working

i went back on another diet stretch and it's absolutely murdered my motivation :<

yesterday I had to take a break from exercising too because my whole body ached, and i was just a piece of shit all day :< did absolutely nothing, not even play games

I hope you're enjoying your healthy new lifestyle!

ty ty

i'm just paying for years of burgers and pizzas ;< I'm not dieting in a healthy way at all, just a very effective one. 800-1100 kcal a day of lean meats only starts to fuck with your head badly when your bodyfat is already within acceptable limits. I'm trying to cut down to athlete-class weight and start some wrestling/MMA training in the spring, so I gotta TRAIN FAST LIKE SPEED OF SOUND LIKE JOHN FREEMAN

I don't see why you need to diet for that, plenty of wrestlers are fat

i am also a narcissist

and you like to grapple with sweaty men

who are trying to kill you

In MMA? I don't think so, that's a pussy fight.

If by any chance anyone is considering going to an outlet mall at this time of year...don't.