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Originally Posted by ziggytrix
and sometimes people think they are being the bigger person, when really they are just turning all their aggressive feelings into passive ones... i used to do that a lot.
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Further, I think the same people assume the same roles over and over again telling themselves that they're the correct ones in doing things the way they do them. It's kind of hard to see just how you may be getting the short end of the stick as the person on the "inside" of the relationship. A little help from a third person can help in these situations. Perhaps you're being too analytical of the situation ... and perhaps not enough.