[Anti-Xocial]

Kids are great but they do get in the way if you want to have a career going. The way I see it is that you, as a woman, have a choice about having them. Either get them or don't, just be damn sure of your decision and stick with it!
There are over 6 billion people on this earth, you, not contributing to the over-population, just makes you a hero! Plus, you can always adopt a child if you are getting too old to have them yourself!

Men, on the other hand, Hmmm... with them, its always "can't live with them, can't live without them" So, I guess you have to find a partner with a career-mind set like your own! That could probably make your relationship easier or at least more even/balanced...