yeah that "initial daze" always felt like an untrue phase of an encounter with a member of an opposite sex
Helm you ever met a girl that had a way of thinking like you who's honest of what she wants and draws the line between physical saturation and the thing you call "love"?
May be the abstinence is a way to go, but i always found the comfort in the thought that i can't stay this objective forever and that there IS a girl that you will want to just be with even after you finish jerking off
*or you could just be talking in a whole another level here, just please ignore the nonsense if you are