So have you spoken to her AT ALL?
I hate to tell you this, but my cousin just crushed the heart of a poor bastard who'd been doing the "adoring her from afar" shtick. He managed to summon up the nerve to write a love letter, and she crumpled it up and threw it in the trash in front of him
So, the moral of the story here is to always use proper spelling when writing love letters, if at all! It's best just to say hello!