hmm...

[Lenor]

Actually its good to see a gyno once a year for a pap test, even if your not having sex. And it could be mental, or physical. I dont really know your past history. Alot of things can be a factor in why sex hurts. For me they never figured it out, and I Just had to deal with it.

Ive heard of endometriosis, which is a physical problem usually resulting in a laproscopy(sp). They will then be able to tell if its more towards the front of the vaginal walls, which is usually scar tissue and causes severe pain, usually though only for the first couple of minutes.

It can also be an age issue, sometimes woman dont fully devolop entirely until their 20's...

Can you wear a tampon without it hurting? its very doubtful your that stretched out, unless you've had a baby and since you've never had sex, then thats doubtful. So, in that area, it stretches right back up after any type of intercourse. Most woman dont actually become any where near 'loose' unless they've had kids. Which eventually the vagina will yet again stretch right back up.

But yeah, id recommend getting yourself in the mood first, masturbate, get comfortable, use alot of ky lube.. the warming stuff is awesome haha .. and then after being relaxed after a few minutes, try to insert it then after reaplying more lubrication. Go slow and in just ease yourself onto to it..