Well I've had anal sex a few times. The (was gonna be) first time we warmed up to it very slowly... him probing me with his fingers first, very cautiously.... it (the fingers) kind of hurt, there were spots that particularly hurt for some reason, but eventually they went away.... haha, actually the FIRST time, we COULDN'T GET IT IN
. It just hurt too much and I felt like I was going to fucking tear. Apparently we thought we were using lots of lube but we weren't...
But then we tried again a few months later and warmed up to it the same but used about twice as much lube... it just slid right in :D it didn't particularly hurt but I did have to ask him to stop a few times to let me relax. It didn't really feel so great for me, but it wasn't too unpleasant, either, so I have no objection to it.
I used to be really (no pun intended) anal about it, I just didn't want to think about anal sex ever but I realized that was very closed-minded. You have to at least consider the possibility that it isn't completely disgusting
That's what I did and now I'm fine with it.
Since then we have about 3 or 4 times.... each time we need less and less lube. The last time we did it without lube and it didn't hurt (no he's not small, that's not why
). So yeah, my view on anal is... if you like it, you like it. If you don't, you don't. But it's stupid to object to others liking it. It's not a disgusting activity. I can say that my boyfriend's dick didn't have a single bit of shit on it after anal
It didn't smell funny either... well, maybe a little.
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