Originally Posted by Carnivore Is God
everything's not "ok" just yet but he feels like a real asshole now and i'm hanging a good guilt trip over him.
Wow. Not sure if that's a good "idear" Carny. Either you bring it all up, out and be done with it with him or refuse to drop it until YOUR satisfied. One way or another if you stow it away and bring it up for a more convenient time or mood swing later, it will never be resolved. This is a train wreck waiting to happen all over again. Deal with it and with him now because bringing it back up or reacting to it via some other situation will eventually erode the relationship away.
Now the only way to truly forgive a man for that is to fuck him in the ass with a strap on and send the monkey naked pictures of your bewbies.
Although not necessarily in that order.