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MisSFiT · #26

I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?

MockMeAmadeus · #27

MisSFIT, thanks for saving my ass on the routing thing. Yea, actually it should read rooting.

Correct. It is stipulated in Chapter 2 of the Dating manual for Cool (Immature) guys. It reads something to this effect: 'Never, ever make contact with her immediately. Let her "suffer" for a while'.

So, leave it for a while and see what happens. Don't fret. I agree, don't call him. He must make the first move.

Cosmo Electrolux · #28

I think there is an unwritten "guy" thing where the man must wait three days before calling the girl. However, I broke with accepted protocol with my current girlfriend and called her when I got home after our first date. She later told me that my calling made a HUGE impression.

MockMeAmadeus · #29

You, good sir, are not immature.

Cosmo Electrolux · #30

Well, I am, but not about everything

P.S. Welcome to the forum.

MockMeAmadeus · #31

Thank you.

MattJack · #32

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Originally Posted by MisSFiT

I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?

I tell a girl when I'm going to call her, or ask.

"Can I call you this week?"

"Can I call you tomorrow/in a few days?"

Most guys wait a couple of days before calling a girl because they don't want to seem desperate. I would only suggest calling this hombre in a couple of days if you really like him.

Text messages are a lot easier, so I would suggest texting him if you wanna talk.

Cosmo Electrolux · #33

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Originally Posted by MisSFiT

I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?

wait a minute....you're sarcastic and pretend you don't like the guy, then expect him to call? Um....okay.

MattJack · #34

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Originally Posted by Cosmo Electrolux

wait a minute....you're sarcastic and pretend you don't like the guy, then expect him to call? Um....okay.

Women are strange, strange creatures.

Men are from Mars, women are from Crazy.

Or as my father always says:

"Women, can't live with em, can't kill 'em."

Cosmo Electrolux · #35

I've said that a few times myself...yep.

MisSFiT · #36

No, I don't really act like a bitch or pretend not to like him. I just sort of like to make fun of people in a flirting type of manner

Anyway he texted me today, so I guess it sort of worked. Now I don't know if I like him anymore.

Perndog · #37

The "wait so you don't seem desperate" thing only goes for guys. Girls should call whenever they feel like, as long as it's not in the middle of the night or repeatedly. Better yet, make plans for the second date while you're still on the first date, then you don't have to do the stupid phone thing at all.

MisSFiT · #38

I'm kidding, I do like him, but I don't like mixed messages, or mind games, if that is what you would call it, I don't know. I'll call him tomorrow.

Esuohlim · #39

No, do what I said

MockMeAmadeus · #40

Shit, she already called.

MisSFiT · #41

What do you mean? So what if I called, what does that mean? I shouldn't had huh?

I know milhouse, I should have just done what you said in the first place, and said screw it.

Cosmo Electrolux · #42

holy crap, you called him??? That's a egregious breach of etiquette, young lady... there could be consequences.

MisSFiT · #43

I know, he texted me first on friday. Now I haven't heard from him. Oh well, you win some you lose some, I'm pretty f-n irratated. I don't understand those things called men.

Cosmo Electrolux · #44

we are complicated animals.

MisSFiT · #45

No, your just animals. But not like human animals.

MockMeAmadeus · #46

Nope, we are like human animals. Trust me, they are the worst.

MockMeAmadeus · #47

Use strategy on him. Phone him and ask him what does he want out of this. Only two options. Yes or No. That's it. If yes, great. If no, well then he is the loser. As long as it's not in the middle of the night or repeatedly.

Cosmo Electrolux · #48

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Originally Posted by MisSFiT

No, your just animals. But not like human animals.

ah, so now we resort to generalization.

MisSFiT · #49

Sorry

I only meant part of that.
Yeah I just need to be straight forward and ask.
we have mutual friends so I might see him this weekend, I'll ask when I'm drunk!!