George, not all girls are cruel. You just need to look in the right places. Love can appear from the most unlikely of places. However, it is so hard to find someone that you find special. Just be yourself and try not to get upset if a girl says something silly. Alot of girls are hung up on their ex's but you can just prove you're better by being a thoughtful, reliable and caring. Girls for so many years want the bad boys, but then they eventually realise that it's not fun being cheated on and messed around all the time and they look for someone who isn't like that. Sadly alot of girls realise this quite late in life.