Saying no to a girl

[kellychaos]

Originally Posted by Zhukov

Explaining my position sounds like a good idea. I am in a bit of a position at the moment.

Cheers.

She's still going to be puppy-dogging you. Although I feel you think that she is nice (whatever that means), I sense that you really don't respect her (Re: communism is "cute"). She seems to want a relationship and will forgive you, if she is even aware of, what she considers your foibles. My question to you is, "What are YOU getting out of this relationship ... and don't give me this "friends" business." I hate to sound masogynistic, but guys are generally in it for the seks. Really, what do you want out of this? Honesty with yourself should be your first concern. :whenharrymetsally

[the[Hitman]]

Just explain to her that in your communist regime, you would rather have her in the harem than beside you.

[FS]

kelly, I don't think that just because someone can say stupid things, you can't be friends with them. My dad sometimes says stuff that makes me curl my toes, but I still love 'im.

HAHA YES TERRA IN THAT WAY

[Zhukov]

Originally Posted by Cosmo Electrolux

how would YOU like to be turned down? I think I would prefer the truth.....and a beer....maybe buy her a beer.....

I bought her a vanilla slice.

The hard part was bringing it up, then I told her I was already after someone else, and being more than friends with her would feel like she was some kind of cop out. I don't want that because I respect her, and don't feel the need to have sex with her and I want to be friends.

She was ok about it and we hung out and it was all ok.

Special thanks Cosmo Eletrolux.

[Terra]

Originally Posted by FS

HAHA YES TERRA IN THAT WAY

Oh FS, I wasn't going to say anything.

Congratulations Zhukov. I know it's hard to handle touchy situations like that and I'm glad you guys worked it out.

[AChimp]

Good. A vanilla slice is just the kind of harsh that I was talking about. She hates you now, man. You're in the clear.

[Helm]

communist she said it was "Cute"

what the gay?

If she really wants you, be ready to turn her down nicely a few times more, though. She doesn't want to be your friend, probably, and it will show and become increasingly difficult for her and eventually for you.

[Zhukov]

Great. Thanks.

[AChimp]

You might have to whip out the chocolate mousse or the mocha latte.

[Terra]

Only if he wants to whip things up again and get laid. She'll be a sucker for a mocha latte.

[Command Prompt]

Lattes suck. Cappacinnos or whatever are so much better

[Terra]

Cappuccinos=too heavy. Better sex with a latte. It's lighter and without strings attached.

[Zhukov]

She moved on pretty quickly, and I feel not that irresistable anymore. I probably would have enjoyed turning her down again.

Does that make me a cunt?

[Helm]

Well you felt it so it doesn't make you a cunt to be truthful about it. If you went and told that to her face though, likeso:

- Hey, about that other time? Do you still uh, you know, are you still interested?

- Uh, oh god! I guess, umm... yeah. What, are you?

- No. Fuck you. Bitch.


That'd make a bit of a cunt. You'd be one of my favourite people ever, though.

[kellychaos]

You communist attention whore!

[point_RKO]

Originally Posted by Zhukov

What is a good way to word "I don't want you as a girlfriend" ?

I really recommend you to tell this into her face

"Hey! I want you to meet someone. His name is -RoG-. He likes to mock pop culture whenever he has his grubby hands on! He's the coolest guy in the world! Don't you wanna meet him? Aren't you interested? -Rog- is unique among any men, even me-in this world!

Hey, did I mention that he has a website? Actually, he had this secret organization with Pickleman. Know Pickleman?... He's a great guy I tell ya!'"

[Big McLargehuge]

Thanks for the advice man