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| May 19th, 2003 01:06 AM | ||
| executioneer |
wrong  I was lying  voice of no experience -willie |
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| May 19th, 2003 12:58 AM | ||
| AChimp |
Many inflatable women have imploded under Willie because all the stress they felt.
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| May 19th, 2003 12:37 AM | ||
| executioneer |
voice of experience -willie |
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| May 18th, 2003 09:04 PM | ||
| theapportioner |
 at executioneer
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| May 17th, 2003 08:40 PM | ||
| Skulhedface |
IN a perfect world, yes, there would be no need for the "bigger person" but pessimistically speaking, as long as there is SOME tenet of your personalities that is different, there WILL be something to argue about. Just hope you have good luck and it's not anything serious. But it IS important to know when to step outside of yourself or to get input from someone that knows what's going on and gives an unbiased opinion. But whoops, I'm slipping into that perfect world again.. |
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| May 17th, 2003 08:11 PM | ||
| executioneer |
BEING THE BIGGRE PERSON MEANS YOU HAVE TO BE ON THE BOTTOM OR ELSE THE SMALLER PSERSON GETS CRUSHED -willie |
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| May 17th, 2003 03:51 PM | ||
| Spectre X |
I thought this thread was about the size of a person's peepee.
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| May 13th, 2003 01:57 PM | ||
| sadie | i concur. | |
| May 13th, 2003 08:10 AM | ||
| Helm | Great post, wreck. Much seconded. | |
| May 12th, 2003 07:14 PM | ||
| Zosimus |
We are all different from each other in the way that we give and receive. Some people are greedy and take more than their share, while others give too much and get too little in return. If you always are the one that forgives, or you are the one (regardless of who started it) that always says: "Sorry," then you will eventually implode with all the frustrations you are carrying inside. You have to talk to your friend/partner about how this makes you feel, and hopefully/eventually, over time he/she will have a better understanding of when it is their turn to take the responsibility of "being the bigger one". I |
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| May 12th, 2003 06:59 PM | ||
| wreckreation | no, that is just passive-aggression. It's just gonna eat you up inside. Mediating involves resolution. The problem with couples is they always wind up arguing about how they argue. They cannot step outside themselves to achieve resolution because they wanna keep analyzing everything. You'd be better off staging a bunch of fun arguments so when the real ones come up you both just joke around and not let it get to you. Well, you'd be better off GETTING A DOG and not being in a relationship anyway. | |
| May 12th, 2003 06:48 PM | ||
| punkgrrrlie10 |
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| May 12th, 2003 06:08 PM | ||
| wreckreation | relationships are for FAGETS. | |
| May 10th, 2003 11:31 AM | ||
| kellychaos |
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| May 9th, 2003 11:48 PM | ||
| AChimp |
Hmm... I think that's what I do, ziggy.
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| May 9th, 2003 09:18 PM | ||
| ziggytrix |
sometimes people are just natural mediators, but ideally it should be mutual, in my arrogant opinion. and sometimes people think they are being the bigger person, when really they are just turning all their aggressive feelings into passive ones... i used to do that a lot. |
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| May 9th, 2003 09:10 PM | ||
| punkgrrrlie10 |
Being the bigger person Should this be mutual or is there always someone in the relationship who is always being the mediator and smoothing things over even when it was the other person that sucks?
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