alright, time for a serious situation

[bigtimecow]

so my girly and i were supposed to go to this show at the auditorium and she wanted to take me for my birthday but she didn't have the money to get the tickets so we decided against it (but let me point out that we both REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted to go together). so my pal decides to get me and him tickets to go to the same show for my birthday and i ask if the tickets can be for me and my girly because i thought he was just giving me two tickets not giving me one ticket and having the other for himself (i should've thought that in the first place; the thought of inviting my girly rather than him when he gives me the tickets is stupid). he says it's completely fine, so i think: alright, this'll be great. turns out that my pal was getting them for me and him (which i, like i said before, should've assumed at first) and he thought it was pretty stupid of me to ask him if my girly could come instead. i said it was pretty stupid of him to say it was okay if it wasn't. so we establish that both of us did something stupid and we're cool. but the girly is pretty upset now. 'cause like i said earlier, we were really excited about going to see the show and then we couldn't and now we could. and now she is very mad at me for still going with my pal rather than her.

now, i believe she has full right to be angry with me. 500% right. but at the same time, what am i supposed to say to my pal? "hey, i don't want the tickets because me and my girlfriend can't go." i'm not going to say that because 1. i don't think that i shouldn't go, and 2. that's really rude and retarded for me to say to a good friend.

as of right now me and my pal aren't sure if we're going because he might not be able to get tickets, but what do you guys think?

:/