Uh, if you have all these earth-shattering examples of why she's infatuated with you, why did you even bring up that she smiled-at-you-once-this-one-time-one-day-but-it-could-have-been-an-accident?
Because the earth shattering evidence was then, and the milder evidence is now.
I'm not so sure she's interested in me now either. My point is that she was.
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