Not exactly a "romantic" relationship question,more a people-in-your-life question...

[Kitsa]

I just flat out refused to help someone the other day, and that's not like me at all. Usually I get pressured and cave, but I didn't this time. This person uses people, treats them like shit and generally makes sure the universe revolves around them. (I know that's not grammatically correct; I didn't want a gender identifier).

Beyond that, a relative of this person reduced my mother to tears and the person has said insanely cruel things to me. I just decided that this was going to be one time I wasn't going to step in and be a servant.

It went quite well, because this person's relative had to step in and do the work himself and from what I heard had a hard time of it. After he made my mom cry, I was sort of happy to hear that.