I have all the information I would need to identify her & stalk her forever, but that has never worked out to be something useful. So, Gentlemen, I'm going to pour my angst out as childish behaviour on here, yet as I cannot expect to leave for so long & then return to find the rules unchanged... I'm going to need all of you to generally lower the tone just a bit until I get up to speed. Thank you for your consideration, and Merry Christmas.