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punkgrrrlie10 · #1

my b/f says our relationship revolves too much around sex.

wreckreation · #2

WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO ABOUT IT?

punkgrrrlie10 · #3

advise me fuckhead.

CaptainBubba · #4

Your boyfriend is what they like to call in da' hood, "a pixie child".

My advice: Get another boyfriend. It sounds like you don't have much in common, otherwise youd be doing other stuff as well.

Of course my advice sucks, but if you have this problem then obviously theres something wrong at the core of the relationship. Which would suggest theres little you can do to remedy it.

What do you two have in common? Why do you like eachother? How long did you know eachother before you met? How long were you in a relationship before it turned sexual?

These are questions that need to be answered before anyone can give you good advice to your query.

But for the sake of good measure: MAKE A PORN VID W/ HIM AND HIS FRIENDS AND LET HIM HAVE THE MONEY SHOT! NOTHING SAYS "I LOVE YOU DEEPLY" LIKE LETTING YOUR MAN TAKE THE MONEY SHOT!!!

ok.

Protoclown · #5

I think the solution to this problem is for you to fuck MY brains out.

FS · #6

So, he's gay.

MaskedMonk · #7

Let's not jump to conclusions, FS.

...

He could be a eunuch.

punkgrrrlie10 · #8

"pixie child"? WTF does that mean?

We've been together 6 yrs., but we've taken very different roads in life. He basically went directly into the job market, works a 9-5 and has all kinds of free time to do stuff, whereas I went to college and am now completing law school. So we seem to have less and less in common as time goes on. we both met each other when we were 18 so we had alot in common back then. :/

CaptainBubba · #9

"pixie child" is the name they give to those who decline to have sex with pretty females in da' hood.

If your personalities had or have alot in common then time shouldn't really be a factor in it, I just wanted to know if this was a serious relationship or not.

What do you mean by "we both met each other when we were 18 so we had alot in common back then". Both of you being 18 isn't that big a compatability. I'm assuming you mean in repect to your lifestyles though, which would still suggest that personality wise you don't have alot in common, rather your lifes were both synced well back then.

There is a big difference between being able to do stuff together and wanting to do stuff together.

But seeing that you've known eachother for 6 years I no longer feel that I can offer you any real advice on this. As the longest relationship I've ever had was an impresive 2 months.

Your best bet is with Protoclown's suggestion. And time is of the essence. MAKE HASTE.

punkgrrrlie10 · #10

:/

Well, we had alot in common b/c we were doing the same things. I've been sucked into a much different world. When you're 18, everyone is trying to get things kick started and no one is really settled and such, and everyone is basically trying to party as much as they can.

AChimp · #11

Maybe he's having an affair. :/

Royal Tenenbaum · #12

I recommend sleeping with him more. It'll make him happier.

GnrySgtHartman · #13

Practice abstinence, its the pure thing to do. Plus its a good excuse for proto to use

sadie · #14

it's more than likely over. sorry. but for real. that kind of distance in a relationship doesn't generally go away on its own. and it takes a lot of serious shit work to close the gap. is it worth it to you? to him?

p.s. you can only avoid an offer like that for so long, grrrlie.

punkgrrrlie10 · #15

Sorry. I come from a long line of horny women. I can't do w/o for very long.

AChimp · #16

KevinTheOmnivore · #17

sex is overrated. There needs to be more, otherwise we could all get by with masturbation.....

Royal Tenenbaum · #18

Masturbation is nothing like being with another person, it's boring in comparison. :/

wreckreation · #19

punkgrrrlie10 · #20

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Masturbation is nothing like being with another person, it's boring in comparison

yeah seriously. How can you compare 2 hands with 4 and a penis?

Carnivore · #21

I don't know. You tell me!

Protoclown · #22

Sorry to hear that things aren't working out, punkgrrlie.

Six years is a long time. Sounds like it's time for some serious thought as to whether or not you think you have a future together, because you don't want to drag it on if it's probably not going to work. But if it's worth saving and you think it can be done, you should always go for that option.