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OAO3405: I was just wondering if you were doing anything special over the weekend. The reason I'm asking is because you signed off right after I sent it... I figured your connection screwed up or something.
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First off, saying 'special' in there tells her you like her. In that way.
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OAO3405: So... are you?
Lauren: oh really? i'm sorry....when did you send that? today?
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If she was in any way interested, she would have responded here already.
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OAO3405: I'm more interested in your answer to my question.
Lauren: oh sorry...yeah i don't really think so...i mean its still early to tell i'm more of a last minute person
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Or here. If you actually read what she said, she said she didn't plan on having plans yet.
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OAO3405: Yeah, a lot of times I am too.
OAO3405: It still puzzles me that you don't have a boyfriend. Can't you get pretty much whoever you want?
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This is a dead giveaway. She now no longer has a sneaking suspicion that you like her. This is a huge flashing red light.
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Lauren: haha aw that's sweet...but i dont' think it really works that way, though it would be nice if it did
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She doesn't want to hurt your feelings which is why she's sugarcoating it, but she really doesn't like you like that. This is your wake-up call (even though you won't take it). If you stop now, you may be able to save face and keep your friendship with her.
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OAO3405: If you say so. Lemme guess, haven't found the right guy?
Lauren: yeah i dont' know...maybe....but i'm really focused on my grades right now
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You should have left it at the last one, and now you're actually starting to invade her personal space.
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Lauren: alright well i'll talk to you later...hope you feel better...bye!
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This means that no, she doesn't want to hop in bed with you because she's concerned about your headache. She is still willing to be friends with you, but if you pull off more of these moves, that'll change.
At least you left it here. You still have a chance at having a friend.