I used to play Harvest Moon too. I don't know which one it was, it was on the SNES. My friends made fun of me for it. They called it my "Happy Game".
I always felt bad for your wife in Harvest Moon. Before you get married she has a life and you have to pay a lot of attention to her to get her to love you back. But after you get married all she does is sit in the corner of your two room shack and the only thing you have to talk to her about after marriage is how many eggs she gathered during the morning. You never bring her presents anymore, never take her out and spend all day with her. You just run around with your prize cows, digging holes in arbitrary locations or trying to shove your baby through the cracks in the mountains...