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Originally Posted by kellychaos
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Originally Posted by McMock
Sadly little is gonna change with these campaigns because it's what makes a man a wifebeater that sometimes attracts a certain kind of woman as well and those women are really easy and are afraid to see reality, but anything that helps, is good, i guess.
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They're asking for it, alright. As chlildren, they see their moms getting rib-kicked everyday and say to themselves, "I want a man just like daddy!" and then go out in pursuit of their soul mate so that they can live in bliss forever and ever ... the Ciiiiirrrrcle of Liiiiiiife.
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Actually you are both wrong. There is no causation between being beaten and then seeking out those relationships. Usually it happens over time and occurs after mental and monetary manipulation which makes it harder to really discern what's bad byt the abused. They've found that those who were beaten as kids or watched their mother beaten as kids sometimes become hypersensitive to it and avoid those situations at all costs and even leave relationships without any beating if they sense any of that personality in their partner. No one WANTS that situation and to say someone asks for it is ignorant. Most instances when it's come to being violent, the woman fears leaving b/c then the man will kill her or the children. Most women who leave those relationships, I believe the stat is 80% but not quite sure, even though I know it's pretty high, end up dead by the hands of their abuser. There's so much more to it than "she asks for it".