bum sex

[kellychaos]

Since anuses in and of the hole themselves are pretty much trans-gender orifices, I find the likenesses scare me in very base, homophobic way which I can't get past ... i.e. female ass sex is a stepping stone to male ass sex and I don't plan on applying for a passport to that reality any time soon ... sorry ... I'm a product of my generation.

[da blob]

so what about blowjobs ? isn't a mouth just as much trans-gender ?

[FartinMowler]

I guess if you have a mustache then no

[Terra]

Originally Posted by da blob

so what about blowjobs ? isn't a mouth just as much trans-gender ?

I guess they could be transgender unless somebody has a front tooth knocked out. Then it's a "she." If it's more than three front teeth, it's considered a "he."

[kellychaos]

Originally Posted by *FARTINMOWLER*

I guess if you have a mustache then no

My lunch lady in high school had a bigger mustache than some men I know ... I don't think that I would've wanted a BJ from her either ... perhaps mustaches ARE the key.

[da blob]

Originally Posted by Terra

I guess they could be transgender unless somebody has a front tooth knocked out. Then it's a "she." If it's more than three front teeth, it's considered a "he."

but then male blowjobs would be better than female ones ?
you confuse me.

[kellychaos]

Vaginas do not have teeth ... mostly.

[da blob]

I thought of something back about the original thread subject - how come the overall interest (not to say obsession) about sodomy in porn ? Most men I have known are/were not that much interested in it, appart from curiosity, yet a porn without buttfuck seems exceedingly rare. So what ?

[FartinMowler]

I think all the Porn intrest like peeing and women smoking and on and on is the titilation of a Taboo subject and trying to gratify it is a mission that the creepy seek.

[da blob]

which would mean porn aims at overall very rigid-minded people. I mean taboo ? c'mon.

[FartinMowler]

rigid-minded people

Everybody is different. I find porn boring.

[da blob]

yeah mostly it is. but I meant, I wouldn't call sodomy "taboo".

[FartinMowler]

It is to me. No woman is going to volunteer there asshole without some form of provocation or "suggest" because it is deviant.

[Terra]

But a guy might make it okay?

[DeadKennedys]

Originally Posted by Demogorgon

Too bad there isn't a self-lubricating orfice we could instead of bums.

The vagina?

[camacazio]

Anal sex is great. You people are nuts.

[Helm]

blob: it's basically the constant perpetuation of the male fantasy. The constant interest is much about doing that which is considered deviant in that it is not needed for procreation but rather only to be enjoyed in itself. Much like oral sex and other assorted "I am fucking this body part now" variations. Coupled with the sexist demeaning undertone of abusing a woman (same for ejaculations on people's faces etc), which inbred rednecks around the world find constantly stimulating, you can see how it has become standard in the porn industry.

And yes I am aware the the rectal cavity shares an inner wall with the vagina, and yes, I know that the said nerve endings are much more easily stimulated via anal intercource and that generally a large percentage of women could under specific circumstance enjoy anal stimulation (as opposed to no stimulation at all). However, the percentage of women that would, for physical reasons have stronger vaginal orgasms by having anal sex rather than properly is extremely small. There's quite a few psychological reasons why a woman might enjoy anal sex (the thrill of doing something 'dirty' etc) but none of them are really enough to justify this modern fixation.

[camacazio]

Your theory has difficulty explaining why there are large amounts of women who buy and use butt plugs.

[Helm]

Perpetuating the male fantasy. And the doing something dirty syndrome. And vaginal via anal stimulation. And all sorts of neuroses, hangups, psychoses and minor psychological quirks and traits. What, do you have problems reading?

[camacazio]

but why is it not possible that they just might enjoy it? I mean, it's working some tight muscles. Would it not feel good in a way a good massage might?

[Helm]

Yes possibly although a large number of women report the very uneasy sensation of something foreign inside them, an unpleasant fullness that feels very wrong. And you now say "you get used to it" and to that I say yeah, but why would a woman bother? Because of said desire to perpetuate the male fantasy, the kick of doing something dirty etc etc etc


I'm really not advocating for or against, just trying to clear this up a bit.

[camacazio]

Actually I wouldn't say that. If it isn't comfortable the first time, it's not being done right/carefully enough.

[Helm]

And you'd know for sure how? Can we agree the sensation can be of debatable result for many people, mister I've read too many how to enjoy anal guides on the internet? Well, I for one can say from personal experience that not everybody likes, regardless of circumstance.

[camacazio]

I completely agree that not everyone would enjoy it. And sometimes it is psychological, but that's not always it.

[Helm]

Yes. Sometimes it's the vaginal/anal connection whatever. Can't deny that there are never endings there. There are. Great. Now did we have to go back and forth for five posts so that you'd agree with my original one?