I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't really know what the hell I'm talking about when it comes to girls, but in my perception, there ARE leagues.
I agree that some people are better than others, particularly in a romantic-interest sense, but I also firmly believe that you can improve. Meaning, "out of your league" is not unattainable if you can raise yourself to her [real or perceived] level.
The best way to raise yourself up is to learn how to play the game--and it is a game, until you're actually in a relationship. Learn how women work and how to draw them in (ask guys who are notorious players what they do). Playing it totally straight may be admirable and may work on occasion, but if you can get to the point where a woman is really interested in you, the ends justify the means; I don't think it's wrong to be a little artful in the beginning as long as you treat her right once you've got something established.
CaptainBubba 
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