Life likes fucking with me.

[Big McLargehuge]

Because i have this friend, she loves me as a friend even though we have been friends for less than 4 months. She talks to me frequently and about personal things. I slowly have fallen in love with her. The only downside is that one night when we were having a conversation, things began to start to look up, she began telling me how she needed someone to love and how she needs someone who is her friend first and her boy friend second, any how she said somthing like "I hope i don't sound stupid for asking this" and i started to get all hopeful untill she followed it with "You know i like Scott (another friend of ours) right?" Needless to say i was devastated, and the next day when i was talking to her she commented on how i seem depressed, she pushed and pushed but i wouldn't tell her why i was sad, but i think she suspects that it has something to do with her. Now what the fuck should i do?

[noob3]

confess your love to her promise her you will be everything she wants tell her fuck scott tell her you are so much cooler take her to a movie hold her hand dont lie to her dont lie to her or she will fuck other boys

[Big McLargehuge]

I've done all of that except confess my love

[noob3]

get her outside sit cross legged together on the ground offer her a cigarrette smoke a cigarette too whisper it into her ear she will kiss you then and you will both have cigarette breath you'll laugh about this after you're married

[Big McLargehuge]

Noob is cool.

[FartinMowler]

Noob doesn't know how to use a comma.

[noob3]

yeah seriously fartin : (

[Big McLargehuge]

Back to my pathetic love life please

[CaptainBubba]

Does she seem at all attracted to you? Has she given any indication of an attraction to you?

And don't fall for the whole pushing you thing. She really has no idea why you're so sad.

[Supafly345]

If you think for a seconed that she isn't interested in you, chances are that you're right.
It is really painful, but you will be fine with it in a few days as long as you don't think about it too much.

Having never been in love I cannot properly map the best course when pertaining to your personal well-being. But ask your self, were you really in-love? Probably not.
Make sure you communicate with both her and the subject friend over the next week while trying to realise that it is Ok.

Of course, if you are really sure that you cannot live with this... go ahead and put fourth efforts to sabatoge any chances beween the two. "All's fair" after all.

[Ghost of Fraiser]

Originally Posted by Supafly345

Having never been in love I....

Right there, your done.

[Big McLargehuge]

Yeah, the hardest part is though she likes me as a friend, am i pretty sure she has no intrest in me otherwise. I need to come to terms with this and move on, but it is harder than i thought it could be, i am going to just accept that i am her friend and cannot be anything more than that. I can be content being her friend.

[Geggy]

the last thing you should do is to stay friends with her. you will only fall in love with her even more, it will keep on biting you in the ass. take the risk and tell her your true feelings ...or if it would make it any easier on you, flirt with her a little and make couple of moves. it's all about being creative. if it falls through then you're better off without her. at least you know and you'll have a peace of mind knowing that you gave it a try without regrets. dont cry in front of her though, take it like a man, and walk away...then cry. there are plenty of girls out there who are better for you even though it sucks having to start over again.

[Brandon]

You're finished. It's over. You'll never be more than a friend.

Your mistake was becoming a confidant in the first place.

[Big McLargehuge]

Originally Posted by ArtificialBrandon

Your mistake was becoming a confidant in the first place.

No shit?

[Brandon]

Originally Posted by Big McLargehuge

No shit?

YES SHIT

[AChimp]

Don't listen to Geggy. I hear that crying in front of girls ALWAYS works.

[Big McLargehuge]

Geggy, if i can't have this girl romanticly, i want to have her friendship. It is very important to me.

[Brandon]

Originally Posted by Big McLargehuge

Geggy, if i can't have this girl romanticly, i want to have her friendship. It is very important to me.

Then ditch the romantic hopes. You're not going to have both.

[AChimp]

You are in the situation I was in all summer. Except I accused her of using me to get good grades.

Don't do that, BTW. And don't write her a long letter, either. Of course, you won't be able to talk to her about all of this because girls are incapable of thinking rationally.

[Anonymous]

And they're stupid, too.

[Rongi]

You only say that because you're a metrosexual


You train fucker

[Big McLargehuge]

I won't write a letter, last time i did that the girl moved to Spain .

[Rongi]

And by moved to Spain you mean 'avoided you at all costs'

I doubt Spain is even a country

[Big McLargehuge]

Avoided me all the way across the Atlantic